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Brian--

Thank you for this! Your post hit me this afternoon like a freight train made of butter and cotton candy. I've been so stressed about my youngest son, who is very adhd and mildly autistic. He struggles with focus, executive function, non-preferred tasks---all of the "grown up" skills that the world says you must have in order to lead a good life. School is a non-stop battle, one that we always feel on the verge of losing catastrophically. My own ADHD/over-involved parent brain constantly projects worst case scenarios 20 years into the future.

The only time the worry subsides is when I spend time with him--driving, hiking, father-son trips to Las Vegas, trips to the gun range, watching funny videos. In those moments, he is so lucid, so original, so insightful, so incredibly funny and capable of meta-connections across disparate domains that it blows my mind.

The worry is still there. Will probably always be there, if I'm honest. But man, this post was just what I needed to read today.

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